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My boyfriend or girlfriend…

  1. Seems to like me for who I am
  • Always Sometimes Never

2. Won’t let me talk to other guys / girls

  • Always Sometimes Never

3. Checks up on what I do, where I go, or who I’ve been talking to

  • Always Sometimes Never

4. Tries to stop me from spending time with my friends or family

  • Always Sometimes Never

5. Makes me feel like I have to watch what I do or say

  • Always Sometimes Never

6. Is ok if I say no to something (including sex)

  • Always Sometimes Never

7. Is happy that I make my own decisions about my life

  • Always Sometimes Never

8. Puts me down or humiliates me

  • Always Sometimes Never

9. Has been aggressive or violent

  • Always Sometimes Never

10. Tries to work out arguments by compromising or talking

  • Always Sometimes Never

11. Has pressured, forced or tricked me into doing sexual things that I didn’t want to do

  • Always Sometimes Never

12. Has acted in ways that have scared or hurt me

  • Always Sometimes Never

13. Is happy for me to hang out with friends, without them there

  • Always Sometimes Never

14. Has threatened to hurt me or kill him/herself if I leave

  • Always Sometimes Never

15. Makes me feel scared to disagree or to say no to things

  • Always Sometimes Never

Results

Did you get any warning signs when you took the quiz?  If you did, then these are signs you are not being treated right.

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